How to be a Good Partner
- Remember that that this is only a card game. Have a good time and make sure that partner does too.
- Don’t give lessons (unless you are getting paid).
- Like your partner and root for them 100%. Remember that you are on the same side… and [partner] wants to win as much as you do. It is OK to be nice to a partner you happen to live with.
- When you chose to play bridge with someone, it is unfair to get upset when they don’t play any better than usual.
- Never say anything to your partner unless you would want them to say it to you. Never “result” (criticize partner for a normal action that that didn’t work this time.
- If you feel the urge to be nasty, sarcastic, or critical, excuse yourself and take a walk.
- When you have time between hands, try to discuss topics other than bridge. Never discuss a hand just played with your partner except to clear up a misunderstanding in bidding or defense.
- Think twice about verbally analyzing a hand just played. You might be wrong. Never assume that your partner made a mistake until the hand is over and you have time to think it through.
- When asking another player about a disaster, ask about your hand and not your partners. Don’t ever criticize or embarrass your partner in front of others. Never side with an opponent your partner.
- If you are too good for your partner, or don’t enjoy playing with them, chose someone else rather than being a martyr, but don’t dump your partner unless you’re sure.Marty Bergen Bridge Bulletin January 1984
